命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求 “命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求”，这是一句非常有道理的命理歌诀。
它告诉我们，尽管有时候我们会觉得命运让我们不如意，但是终究有一天我们会得到属于我们的幸福。
没有必要强求自己拥有一些不属于自己的东西，因为它不属于你，即便得到了，也不会带来真正的快乐。
在人生道路上，我们会遇到许多困难和挑战。
有时候，我们会抱怨自己的命运不好，认为所有的不公平都发生在自己身上。
但是我们必须明白，每个人的命运都有不同的安排，我们只能接受命运给予我们的挑战，积极面对生活。
在面对挑战的时候，我们需要坚定信心，勇敢地迎接生命中的每一个难关，只有这样才能走出困境，获得真正的成功。
除此之外，我们还需要懂得放弃。
有时候，我们会陷入一些自己无法掌控的困境中，这时候，放弃也是一种明智的选择。
我们要学会在自己能够控制的范围内追求自己的目标，而不是强求一些无法实现的事情。
最后，我们应该记住“命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求”这句话，坚持乐观向上的心态，相信付出总会有回报，成功终究会到来。
In English: "Sometimes there must be something in your fate, and sometimes you should not force it." This is a very reasonable fortune-telling song. It tells us that even though sometimes we feel that fate is not treating us well, we will eventually get the happiness that belongs to us. There is no need to force ourselves to have something that does not belong to us, because even if we get it, it will not bring real happiness. On the road of life, we will encounter many difficulties and challenges. Sometimes, we will complain about our bad luck, thinking that all the unfairness happens to us. But we must understand that everyone's fate has different arrangements, and we can only accept the challenges that fate gives us and actively face life. In the face of challenges, we need to be confident and bravely meet every difficulty in life. Only in this way can we get out of trouble and achieve real success. In addition, we still need to know how to give up. Sometimes, we will get into some troubles that we cannot control by ourselves. At this time, giving up is also a wise choice. We should learn to pursue our goals within our controllable range, rather than force some impossible things. Finally, we should remember the sentence "Sometimes there must be something in your fate, and sometimes you should not force it" and persevere in an optimistic and positive attitude, believing that giving will always pay off, and success will eventually come.